Day 347

 It is February 20, 2021

Recently when conversing with people about 2020 many have said the time since March 12, 2020 (the day the pandemic became official) has either been in slow motion (2020 felt like forever) or it has sped up (where has the time gone?). This concept of time is one we are familiar with. We keep track of it with clocks, watches and calendars. We know it has ties to space (the moon revolves around the earth) and yet we often do not understand it. The mystery many times is the question of where did the time go?

The general theory of relativity says time began some 13.7 billion years ago when all matter was crammed into one very small dot.  And if theory holds true further development of space may cause the universe to collapse and we would find ourselves inside that tiny dot again. That would truly signal the end of time.

But until then time ticks on...

Besides age we rarely know what happens when time passes. We use events in our life to gauge time such as birthdays, weddings, births and deaths. 

Maybe we ought to pay less attention to it. This article from Discover Magazine tells us many scientist are not sure time even exists. The Arrow of Time

 "According to a theoretical physicist, Dmitry Podolsky, now working on aging at Harvard University, and Robert Lanza from Wake Forest University explain how the arrow of time — indeed time itself — is directly related to the nature of the observer (that is, us)."  They theorize that time is not ticking away ("the moments that make up the dull day"-Pink Floyd) but instead a real property that is subject to the perception of the individual and their ability to preserve events in their life. 

So if we could observe the future we could see ourselves how we wish to be instead of always remembering how we were (thus giving power to time) 

Look five years into the future and see yourself.  Better yet have a conversation with your future self. 

Find out who you want to be and how you got there. Benjamin Hardy, says "You need to learn to want and focus on what your future self wants. You do that by imagining and thinking now about who you want your future self to be." 

Most people are fixed in their desires and see themselves as a person who cannot change (like a personality test or a horoscope tells us what kind of person we are) This fixed mindset does not allow for growth, let alone change. Abraham Lincoln said, "The best way to predict the future is to create it"

Many of us want change in our lives, but simply do not know how to acquire it. The key is looking at your future and understanding that your outcomes depend upon your desires. If you change your current desires to reflect your future outcomes you will begin to see yourself as the person you want to be not the person you are. 

According to Dr. Daniel Gilbert, “Human beings are works in progress that mistakenly think they are finished.”

I realize as I finish my blog today it is not really a blog about the pandemic. and I am okay with that because my future self is no longer wallowing in the frustration and depression of a pandemic world.

My future self is free to choose my feelings, desires and ultimately create my outcomes no matter what is going on in the world around me. Life still continues...pandemic or not. 

An old proverb says, time waits for no man (or woman), but I say your future is waiting for you.

See it now and you will be it in the future.

Good Luck.